Well, it's happened again. Every once in a while... I've got nothing.

Nothing for today. The occasional idea and passing thought, but nothing ever really stood out.

Sometimes, that's how it is. I know Scripture tells us to always be prepared to give an answer for the hope that lies within us. And that's the easy part. That's big picture. As the conversation progresses regarding whatever subject matter or problem someone has approached you with; explaining the reason for our internalized hope is nearly second nature.

As it should be, for those who have taken on the nature of Christ.

For the rest of the issues of life that people bring to the table of ministry, having the "answers" is always that easy.

Somehow, we know God is sufficient and we understand and have witness the working power of prayer, and yet all to often, one's story is heard, and the person who hears it finds themselves speechless. We've all been there. And I'm sure pastors have as well.

And if I'm frustrated, to be in a position, where I feel as though I have nothing to offer in terms of advice or wisdom or whatever, I can only imagine how pastors feel, struggling with similar feelings of helplessness towards those looking for help as well as hope.

So, pray this #associatePastorTuesday, that God would give them wisdom and the words to communicate effectively in addressing the needs and problems that come to them on any given day. Pray that God would give them insight as they listen and words of knowledge as they pray. May the speak life to the dark and troubled situations that are brought to their attention; encouragement to the hopeless and perspective to the confused. Pray they would not feel empty-handed, feeling unable, unprepared or incapabable to help those who come to them in their time of need.

For indeed, prayer does work
And God is sufficient,
But we were made for community.
For His glory.

- PNC

I'm been thinking lately about how many circumstances continue to come to our awareness and in this information-rich environment, we make statements and judgements thinking we know what's going on. And yet, we don't. The whole "feeling" over actual knowing, is creating problems everywhere.

We place a high priority on experience, as we should, for it helps us navigate the next unknown. And that's what lies ahead. The unknown.

There's always so much to do with the organization of the church. And it's not just the tangible to-do list. It's people. It's relationships. There's a time-factor involved. And a process that people go through, that, consistent with the theme over the past few days, is beyond our control.

And yet, as every individual is different, so too are the stories that accompany them. So while experience is the guide, the risk to miss both the obvious and the imperative details is great whenever a rush to judgement or conclusion is made when based on limited information and half-stories.

It feels like we're back to praying for wisdom and discernment. Which isn't a bad thing. We certainly need it. Daily. But we're witnessing the serious repercussions letting emotion determine our decisions rather than reasoning. And that's not to say we should never do something based solely on "gut feeling." If any reasoning should be unexplained, we should at least have an awareness and peace that accompanies a prompting of the Holy Spirit.

Life.What a balancing act it is... occasionally on the high-wire.

Pray this #associatePastorTuesday, that God would pastors in the dealings with people and circumstances of every kind of situation and circumstance. Not only would God grant them great wisdom and discernment, but pray also for an ever-increasing awareness of when to lead with the head or when to rule with their heart. May this "rush-to-jugdgment" mentality that seems to dominate the current news cycle not cause havoc in the church community. Pray the Holy Spirit would continue to direct the leadership of the church; for all the value of experience, may it not take place of seeking the face of God.

For we have been made for this life
Empowered for this life
Equipped for this life.
May we live it with diligence.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I struggled with today's post, not really having anything in mind, or rather, coming to mind... even as the day progressed. Then I happened to catch Dave Ramsey's show, apparently in the middle of a conversation with someone who had called in with a situation about a will and the handling of an estate.

Then Dave did what he always does... shares from personal experience. He went on to share how his family and his leadership team at Ramsey Solutions, meets annual to discuss the unthinkable event. Dave chuckled as he said, "I hate this meeting, because it's all about me dying!" But that's what it is. Annually. The family and leadership discuss what happens in the event Dave dies this year.

And I thought, wow... how many organizations have this established. How many churches. I won't even ask how many homes. Then to advance further... not only setting up the level of detail that Dave has, but to annually re-evaluate and revisit what's transpired, what's changed, who is involved. Relationships changed. People's lives, needs and own careers and aspirations change.

The associate pastor who once said they'd be open to taking over the senior pastor position in such an event, when the contingency plan was set-up 5 years ago, may not feel or desire that role today. Yet, because it wasn't reviewed regularly, or annually, now there's a problem. Or a hundred other countless scenario's. 

What the state of the contingency plans, it's a daunting, necessary and sometimes unpleasant conversation. Both to start and to review.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, for the pastors and team that serve alongside the senior pastor of our churches. Pray that God would help those churches who don't have such plans in place, to begin making those preparations, so they will not be caught off guard. Pray that God would direct the conversations, to put the right people and decisions into the process. May they be wise stewards of their time and resources as plans are established. Pray also, for those churches how are prepared. May God continue to give them wisdom as circumstances change and matters are revised.

May the church be prepared for an untimely passing
As they are for the unknown coming of Christ.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

Once again, I still am not sharing details regarding my friends leave of absence in Monday's post, but I got to thinking about the leadership team of his church and the pastors who handle this month while he is gone. I read my friends' post and how they talked about those who knew the details of the battle they were facing. In his statement, and this has been a recurring theme I've heard elsewhere in recent weeks, that there is power in exposure. That which thrives in the dark will die and that which thrives in the light will grow.

There is, therefore, an incredible transformation that takes place through the process of a life being exposed. Can it be troubling? Absolutely. But handled correctly, it is an amazing opportunity for grace, healing and restoration. The damaged and broken can be repaired and mended.

But just as many didn't know "all" the details of the battle they are in, those in the closest circle of friends and team did. And for that reason, I believe their church is in good hands during this time. Meanwhile, some churches may not be in that place. Pastors and their families could be engaged in battles, struggles and downright war and yet many fears, attitudes, egos and more, stand in the way of open communication and council that would bring help, hope and healing, rather than trying to get through it on their own.

One route is a troubled, losing direction.
The other, an incredible destiny of grace, love and healing.

Let's pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, the pastors and leadership of our churches would be a place of open communication and dialogue. Pray for a balance in the culture of community, that it wouldn't be a matter of drama and downright open transparency, per see, but there would be an atmosphere of trust that would allow for the truth to be spoken. May grace cover every conversation that begins with "this is my battle...". Pray that understanding would permeate every conversation that involves the words "i need help...". Pray that church leadership would be ready to give grace and help, not only among themselves, but also to their congregations, as they build up and lead the body of Christ.

For the glory of God
And the advancement of the Gospel.

- PNC

We've all "fallen" behind. And it's an interesting dynamic. Because the truth of the matter, is that the farther you go without course correction, the worse the situation becomes. The mess gets messier. The irritation becomes more irritating. What would have taken a matter of minutes, now takes a matter of hours, and what was a few hours, now takes days and weeks. Nothing is gained falling behind. (this just in)

If anything is in fact, learned from the process, it's the point that there is great power in staying focused, staying on point and doing what needs to be done when it needs to be done. For the task list items, that's simply a matter of diligence and stewardship. For the unseen issues, it's a matter of wisdom and discernment.

If anything, I feel I have more experience in lagging behind than leading the field. I think the work involved in the former is more stressful and frustrating at more times than the latter. Not that leadership isn't hard work. It is why many don't lead from the onset. But for those who aren't at the top or out in front on the leadership scale, there are many who follow, who struggle just to keep up with the pace.

Pray this #associatePastorTuesday, that God would help those who pastors who are struggling to stay on pace and maintain the correct course. Pray that God would give them the wisdom and discernment to know what they need to be doing from day to day and faithfully execute their responsibilities and duties, both personally and as it pertains to the ministry. May the recognize that there are always opportunities to lead and may the be aware of when those opportunities may present themselves. Pray that they would not fall behind to the point that frustration and discouragement would be stronger than the desire and motivation to catch up and get things done.

For the work of the Lord is never complete,
As much as His work in us is also, ongoing.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

As I was writing yesterday's post on protecting the truth, I kept thinking about the power of numbers, and specifically, supporters.

We've all been the lone wolf at times.
We've all been the lone voice of reason.
Even John the Baptist was the lone voice in the wilderness.

But consider in your life, the power that comes from being surrounded by various levels of support. Family for when you are hurt by friends. Friends for when you are betrayed by family. Those who over comfort in times of great loss. People who laugh during moments of joy. Celebrations are sweeter when people are there to gather with and tragedy is a little less bitter when others mourn with you.

So to, is the truth more easily declared when there is more than one person speaking it. As Christ stated that the poor would always be with you, I think the same can be said for the detractors and naysayers. There will also we an argument against the truth, dismissing the truth, ignoring it or suppressing it.

Culture seems enamored with solidarity stances, yet someone speaks truth and people hesitate as to whether they should stand by it's side.

It's a weird phenomenon that I'm not sure is more disconcerting or depressing. And those who demand evidence of truth seem to be experts on opinion. Another strange dynamic, but for another time.

As a continuation, on this #associatePastorTuesday, pray that truth, while confident in standing alone, would not. Pray for unity with our church leadership, to stand for truth and in particular, God's truth. May there not be a shying away or diminishing perspective of it, but a confidence in its power to bring freedom and clarity to a culture and society that are lacking both. Pray that senior pastors would not stand alone, but that their entire pastoral team would be committed to what should be so simple and obvious. And while we on the topic of support systems, pray for those who hear and receive from the church and its' ministries. May the hear, recognize and reconcile truth as it should be applied to their lives.

For there is freedom in truth
And His Word is truth.
May we know His Word
To be used for His glory.

- PNC

An early lead, is better than a late start. Especially, when, regardless of when you start, you are committed to see the process through to the finish. However, both positions have the deterrents. Getting a later start on something can cause just as much frustration as it does excitement. With every advancing step, you're tempted to kick yourself for not starting earlier.

Yet the earlier the start, the longer the road to traverse. For experiences and encounters, while providing great fulfillment, also offers competing opportunities for frustration. So you find yourself more motivated to advance or more quickly experiencing the fatigue and exhaustion that leads to burnout.

It's an especially interesting dynamic when it unfolds in leadership roles. It's hard to figure out which person you admire more at times. The one who has overcome a lifetime, whether almost literally or seemingly figuratively, of battles and setbacks yet persevere. Or the one who had a well-established foundation and started off on the right foot. It doesn't diminish the fact that they haven't had challenges and disappointments; it's merely a fact, that they have a long-time to make a powerful and lasting impact.

Of course, as I type this, none of us know how long we have. Perhaps a year. Perhaps 60 or 90 more. Why am I writing this as it relates to associate pastors? Because the people who fill these roles run the timeline of age and experience. Young people who have a solid foundation and early start for a long-lasting ministry abound. Conversely, an innumerable amount of older believers, some of whom have come to faith following years of a difficult life and step into church leadership ready to help others, whether they be younger or older than themselves.

The potential and prospect for incredible ministry is great for both of them. But so is the reality of burnout.

So pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, that God would strengthen both the younger and the older, who are help to lead the coming days of the church. May God grant to them, wisdom and discernment in the conversations and circumstances in which they engage and experience. Pray they would stay motivated and determined in their purpose, callling and responsibilities. Pray that neither past challenges nor the ones in the coming days discourage them to the point they would feel the desire to step away. May their faith remain strong; their resolve firmly planted in the hand of God.

A lasting impact for eternity.
Regardless of where they start
Regardless of when they start.
So long as they finish. Well. Strong.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

There's so much of life, the we look at, as cause and effect... in a reactionary way, yes, but in a process. The classic, "if, then" statement.

Then there's the song, So Will I. A truly powerful song, that I reflected on during last nights joint service, when men's and women's ministries comes together once a month with the college/career group.

So Will I talks about the vast greatness of God and puts into perspective what our response to it should be, as we position ourselves in relationship to who God is. And the chorus walks us through several justifications.

If the stars were made to worship, so will...
If everything exists to lift You high...
If the wind goes where you send it...
If creation reveals God's nature...
If Christ gladly chose surrender...

And a number of other similar statements; all as a reminder that while we might have reason for not doing and being as God would have us to be, we have, as the song states, a billion better reasons to do and be what God has called us to be and to do... and to go.

As the service progressed and the men gathered for their session, the long-term youth pastor, now associate pastor, shared some of his story. As a point of detail in the background of his ministry, reluctance to step into a formal, pastoral role. As if the responsibilities didn't "scare" him off, but the title itself. We've prayed before that sometimes titles can stand in the way, to the point that we don't engage or fulfill our purpose at any level.

But even still, sometimes there is just enough that stands in our way that we don't fully engage and take advantage of the opportunity that God would use to an even greater degree and measure than ever thought possible. And the power of the story is that there was one who sat across the table and called it out of him.

Perception. Discernment. Obedience.... to see it and to speak.
And to the hearer... to step forward in it.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, that God would do the supernatural, to break the barriers and fears that prevent pastors and would-pastors from stepping into the role and purpose that God has ordained. May God place people in their lives who would see the dream, calling and anointing that God is desiring to reveal and help them to respond in obedience. Pray that reasons to not do something be cast aside, in favor of the eternal reasons that God would have things to be done and courses of action to be taken.

May fear not hold us back from ministry,
But that faith would propel towards a greater impact.

For the glory of God
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I got to thinking about the people that leaders surround themselves with, on a regular basis. You know this happens from time to time; we've prayed over this type of perspective numerous times, both with regards to associates as well as deacons and staff. What I find powerful, is that true leaders understand that they are not the smartest person in the room.

And while they may acknowledge that they are close to the front of the room; they realize too that they are the only ones... which provides affirmation that, like the rest of those, they still have room to grow, learn and improve. The improvement might be found in their field of expertise and wheelhouse of skills, or it's found in areas that they aren't so strong.

With that understand and perspective in mind then, great leaders are those who recognize the talent and skill of those around them; particularly those who may or may not be in positions of prominence or influence that aren't as "noticed" as much as the ones they themselves hold. It's the hierarchy of titles that we get held up on. Sadly. And frustratingly enough.

Surely, we've all been in positions where we looked at the "leader" above us and wondered what in the world they were thinking about a particular matter. But, like a good parent, great leaders should desire those under their influence, to go farther and achieve greater than what they have done and even yet to do.

Let's pray this #associatePastorTuesday to that end. Pray that associate pastors would continue to grow and strengthen, not only in their faith, but also in their skills. May they be ready and able to take on the responsibilities of ministries and churches as they grow and expand their influence and outreach. Pray for a preparation as God opens doors for the next generation of church planting and expansion. Pray that leadership would not be fearful or intimidated by the knowledge and talent of others in the room; but come alongside to help strengthen, and encourage them to be and do greater things.

For the kingdom of Heaven
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

A couple of points worthy of revisitation, as I continue to ponder the word, associate.

It's a reflection of your environment. A complete picture, of your physical surroundings, the people in the space and the emotional and spiritual quality that can only be gauged by one's soul.

The buzz phrase of late, is that "you don't need that kind of negativity if your life."  And social media makes light of it, by highlighting a variety of scenarios... the person in your life who doesn't like coffee; or chocolate, or anything pumpkin spice. The friend who isn't geeked up by all things Disney or conversely, your favorite car brand. We make light of things quite frequently.

But then we consider the thing we survive and tolerate on a daily basis; that at every instance or occurrence steals from us. Perhaps it cuts out a slice of joy. Other times, it feels like a chink in the armor. It may not cut us to the core, nor to the quick, but it's a cut nonetheless.

Death by a thousand slashes may take a while, but death ensues regardless.

Churches have cultures and environments just like any other business and organization. And so do the pastors and boards who lead them. And so the people and places in which we position ourselves become crucial to both our health and our success. On a personal level. On a professional level. And yes, by all means, a ministerial level.

So, pray this #associatePastorTuesday, that God would grant wisdom and discernment to pastors, regarding where they go and with whom they align and associate themselves. Pray that God would use them to be influencers and world-changers because they have been encouraged and spurred on to greater things and in kind, do the same for others around them. Pray also for grace; for churches and ministries where the tension is tight and the environment more stressful and disconcerting than what is normal and acceptable.

For we are not only products of our environments,
But creators of it as well.
As God created us
For His glory.

- PNC

God is on our side, obviously. Although, sometimes, it doesn't feel so obvious. For pastors as much as believers.
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Conversely, though... just how frequent are the days where it feels as if nobody is fighting for us? There is not one who is stepping up for our defense, standing in the gap and acting as an advocate on our behalf. What do we do then?

Hopefully, we do the very thing that King David did!

He encouraged Himself in the Lord.

Was David tired? Exhausted? Burnt out? Frustrated? Stressed? Anxious? Absolutely, in fear of his life? All of the above at various times. And also, very "out of line" with some of his decisions. But he had a resilient faith and a heart towards God.

And he didn't wait for someone to come along side and help him get through the difficult places and overwhelming circumstances. That's not to say he didn't have those people at times. But when they were no where to be found, he didn't sit there waiting for them either.

So, let's pray this #associatePastorTuesday, that when it's one and God, pastors would remain steadfast. Pray pastors would be renewed and strengthened, even in the days and times when no one comes alongside to help in the moment. Pray that they would not lose heart, but stand resolute in the face of opposition and obstacles. Pray the overwhelming and insurmountable would diminish, as they continue to place their trust and call on the name of Lord their God.

For even when they stand alone and advocate for themselves,
God is near and present; fighting on their behalf
As close as the mention of His name.

- PNC

Has anyone else noticed, life doesn't stop. Even one one's life does, in fact, actually stop, the process of living does not stop for the rest of us. Task and responsibilities, relationships and opportunities are seemingly endless leading to incredible amounts of energy expended and time spent into getting things done and making meaningful contributions.

It's no wonder people get stressed, worried and anxious so quickly and so often.

You may not be able to inject an actual solution or "fix" for a particular problem or circumstance, but it's amazing just how often a change in perspective works.

The mind is technical.

Like a notorious computer operating system, or your internet connection or preferred internet browser, sometime you just need to hit the "refresh" button.

Life, like a program, locks up. And simply taking a step back and reevaluating things; putting pen to paper and stating what is known is almost a miracle of relief in itself. Computer techs have a term for this. "Clearing the cache."  It's a simple click of a button, but for the mind, we all too often make it seem more complex than it is.

And that's not to diminish the moments that truly are complex and difficult to discern. But I would argue that that's the time to truly simplify one's perspective and the lens and filter through which they view the matter. Write it down. It helps.

On this #associatePastorTuesday, pray for those having difficulty in stepping back and gaining a fresh take on the matter. Pray for those frustrated by the approaches and methods towards solutions have not worked or seem to be more trouble and cause more problems that what already exists. May God help them to change their perspective and see things from a different vantage point. May the power to breathe bring calm in the midst of the stress. May the prayer of the righteous go forth; that God would hear their plea and grant peace in the midst of the chaos.

For God brings help in our time of need
To those who call upon His name.
May we seek Him first.
For His glory alone.

- PNC

I think we've all, at some point and time in our journey of faith, applied the human perspective or response to God. Whenever I feel as though I am being convicted or challenged, I call it a spiritual whack upside the head, aka, the loving affection only a Dad can give a son as a way of "that was really stupid, don't do it again." I'm sure you have your own examples.

Regarding a different arena of life, we all found ourselves in positions less than idea, but we had to make do as best we could, with the resources or position that was available at the time. Say for instance, employment. Jobs that were horrible, but were a stop-gap to an even worse situation; or perhaps they were a sacrifice for reaching a long-term goal or financial gain. Perhaps it was a stepping stone to something bigger and better and so, we put up with it because again, it served a greater purpose.

And much like we apply human behavior to God's vantage point, I could help but wonder if in their quiet times, they have felt about ministry, having a similar experience that we've felt in the marketplace. I know; this is another one of those things that you don't want to think happens within church leadership.

But if we acknowledge and fully understand that pastors are just as human as the rest of us, then I think it's unrealistic to think that at some point, a pastor hasn't gone home and wondered what they were doing. They may be leading a ministry that is not their gifting or passion, but they serve just because there is a need. As such, there is a frustration that exists, because while they are trying to make the most of it, it's not "ideal" or desirable. Likewise, people in various positions of church leadership and authority can be just as difficult to deal with and work with on a daily basis as though with secular jobs.

Again... we hope that's not true and pray that's not true; but we shouldn't be all that surprised if such a story were ever told.

That said, we revisit a recurring theme, even covered a few times in recent days...

God doesn't waste an experience.
The ones that are most frustrating to us are the most opportune for Him to accomplish His purposes.

Pray this #associatePastorTuesday for those pastors that are in a place of frustration and difficulty. Whatever the circumstances of their battle and struggle, may God give them a grace in every daily interaction. May God help them keep the perspective that He is at work in their life as much as He is in the lives of those where there is a spirit of contention and discouragement. Pray that God would give them wisdom and direction; seeking for divine insight and communication and timing regarding the decisions that need to be made, the steps to be taken and the words to be shared. Pray for a peace and rest; that in the late and dark hours, discouragement and despair would not overtake them, but that hope would arise and take it's place as they trust God once again for daily reliance and provision.

For the glory of God
And the advancement of the kingdom of Heaven.

- PNC

Dear friends of mine, were at the children's hospital early this morning for what was the third "major" surgery for their baby girl. I left them a voicemail as they were en route for the 6am check-in and I was wishing that I didn't have to go to work, but instead was on my way to hang out with them while they waited.

I don't do well in hospitals... I really don't know how I'd fare, dealing with the mess and the stress that they've endured. They're heroes. It's been an incredible journey.

But as the day progressed, I found myself considering the unbelievable number of pastors whose calendar is full of hospital visits and home visits, accident scenes and the like. Conversations with marriages on the verge of divorce and in teens in trouble of many kinds.

Reality hits hard and many of us are surrounded by those whose battles and struggles we only know a glimpse of; sometimes only due to the power of social media. Because it's near impossible to devote one's entire day to relational investing; of knowing who is going through what and what can be done to help or meet a need.

There is simply too much. The need is too great. The people too many. The situations too dire.
It's impossible to carry it all, hear it all, deal with it all to say nothing of being able to solve it all.

And people understand that; pastors can't do it all and shouldn't do it all, even when people perceive they can or believe they should. We rely on our pastors, but we should rely on God more. We expect a lot from our pastors, but we should believe God for more.

Does life deal out more than we can handle? Yes
But God is sovereign.

T.D. Jakes said it like this, if I recall properly. All things may not be for our good, but God is working good, in all things.

So, no matter what we face, we do not do so alone, for those in Christ Jesus.

Let's pray, this #associatePastorTuesday that God would continue to use them, as they minster to countless people and needs, putting the needs and struggles of others above their own. Pray for strength as they walk with people during times of trial, suffering and loss. Pray for wisdom and discernment, as they engage in conversation and counsel. May the be the support, encouragement and correction that God has revealed to them necessary for that specific time and circumstances. Pray for grace as help others life lives of real faith as they battle the real world.

For our battles are not against flesh and blood,
But powers and principalities.
For Satan has a plan of destruction,
But God has a mission to build.

- PNC

Nobody likes to be rushed. Even when we have to rush ourselves, it is frustrating. And once in a hurry, anything or anyone who slows you down or stands in the way just seems to create even more frustration.  

The biggest of projects, or the minor-est of inconveniences, life is frustrating enough. We really don't need more of it, whether from people, pressure or circumstance. Yet we all experience it. We've all been on the receiving end of it. We've all created it for someone else. And why.

Is some of it legit? Probably.
Is mot of it necessary? Probably not.

God tells us to be anxious for nothing, and yet at a certain level, stress does create a certain level of anxiety in our lives. Even if we are in a position to afford the cost, handle the responsibility or navigate the complex problem with confidence, the "back of the mind" element still exists, itself ready to release havoc in our lives.

I really wish there was an easy solution, for whatever it is that stands before us. But there isn't. Taking care of the matter at hand while it is before you is an intentional act, even when it it "easy". Doing what you can do when you are able to do so goes a long ways. Asking for help and advice when you need it from those who are truth-tellers who have your best interests in mind, accomplishes much. And of course, reliance upon God through prayer.

A great reminder, even for pastors.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday that the stress and struggle of ministry and the current battles they face would not overtake or overwhelm them. Pray a sense of victory and progress, as they commit to the Lord, their daily activities and schedules. May they be intentional and focused in all that they say and do; not out of hurry or frenzy, but from a place of confidence and peace. Pray anxiety and worry would be far removed from their lives, as they walk in faith and live in the confidence of their calling having fully placed their trust in God, repeatedly. Daily.

For He has not given us a spirit of fear,
But of confidence, and a sound mind.
For His glory alone.

- PNC

Another late in the day post, I know... I struggled, as I didn't feel I had any direction for this post today either. But, late in the day it comes, and so late, in the day we're here! Prompted, no less, by an online conversation that got me thinking about how we look back at certain decisions made by others and wonder... how did that happen?

There's any number of current events and social issues for which this question applies, whether in today's news or the breaking news of your youth; none of which was the topic this evening. Nevertheless, it didn't take long in looking at the matter, to wonder why certain considerations weren't given due diligence or specific details don't seem to have been thought thru as to long-term effects and future difficulties.

Of course, this is a problem that every organization deals with, from senior management (especially in times of transition) to staff and team members and especially to mid-level management. The level where there is decision-making ability that the higher ups might not know the specifics of, but everyone affected will have their moment of wonder. Likewise, that mid level of management will also have some insight and understanding of what is going on in the upper echelon of decision makers, whereby they'll ask the same questions with similar states of intrigue.

What were they thinking when....

We've all been there. I ask myself what I was thinking from way back when, more often than I care to admit! But for all of that, all you can do is deal with today and where you are, with what you have and with those who are present now to be of assistance and influence.

Pray this #associatePastorTuesday, that God would indeed, give wisdom and direction for those who find themselves in difficult circumstances, unable perhaps to figure out how the present challenge even came into existence. Pray that God would give them favor and creativity as to how to overcome the matter. May God help them keep a proper perspective of His sovereign hand and keep a complaining spirit at bay. Pray for a focus on Godly, effective and beneficial solutions where and whenever possible. Pray too, that God would surround them with people who will speak truth and life into these circumstances; giving wisdom, direction and support. May frustration and anger not get the best of them, but that they would find ways in which God would be glorified with outcomes that only He could bring into fruition.

For all our lapses in better judgement
God works it all for His glory.
And thankfully, not for our demise.

- PNC

Today is primary election day in some states. Oh the joys of politics and a Constitutional Republic.

On this #associatePastorTuesday, I can't help by reminded that life is real and so are the people in it. As such, it's impossible to please everyone. On further thought, I'm not sure who struggles with this more; the politician or the pastor? For as much as people criticize those who hold both of these positions, you would think that there would be a rush for the critics to step underneath the lights of that criticism. But alas, they do not... and neither do I, for that matter.

Furthermore, it doesn't help that it is all too easy to get caught up in the personalities of the people rather than the power of the policies. People have become more concerned about preserving their career rather than the Constitution and likewise, pastors to preserve the pulpit, rather than preach the power of the Cross.

A man in our church ran for office. And while he is incredibly bummed regarding the outcome, those who are attempting to encourage him aren't doing so well. Or they are and he isn't having it.

This is gonna be a short post and it is what it; but I'll share here what I posted elsewhere in that conversation...

"Don't believe the perceived responses of people whom you have projected your expectations."

In other words, it's easy to think people feel or think about things or ourselves in a particular way, often based on little to nil evidence, then we believe what we have "projected" as if they actually had mounting and substance evidence to justify it all.

This does not help; both in terms of self-confidence, nor in the confidence of those we serve or attempt to serve.
What does help... remain faithful, to the work and purpose for which you've been called.

For the pastor. For the politician. For the ones in the pew.

On this #associatePastorTuesday, pray for pastors that are struggling with critics and circumstance in which relationships and perception seems to be causing stress and difficulty. May God give them wisdom in navigating such trouble times. Pray for a peace about their spirit and a quiet confidence in the work of God within their lives. Pray God would give them wisdom in the days to come; to find health and balance in their relationships and live true to the ministry in which God has placed them to serve and serve faithfully.

For the glory of God.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Continual moments of trust.

That's almost all we can do. Sometimes, it is, literally, all that we can do.

For the rest of life, it is the essence, the very beginning of everything that follows

We don't have all the answers. And in the words of Chief of Staff, Leo McGarry, from The West Wing...

"We don't always know; how it ends."

You would think that not knowing would make it easier to trust God. But it doesn't. Not always. Not always at first. Not always as much as it should. We worry. We fret. We overthink, over-analyze and over-worry.

Conversely, we struggle more often than not, with an overwhelming sense of peace. An over-abundance of joy. And periods of prayer that extend into over-time. Yet the times of faithfulness and continued trust are worth it. Even when it seems as though you are just maintaining. That, in and of itself, is quite an accomplishment sometimes.

But it's one that God can honor. Because it equates to perseverance. We're not done yet. We're not giving out. We're gonna continue to plan and pray and figure things out and trust God through all of it that He will help us find our way. Then God does His part and grants a surprise blessing. It doesn't mean there aren't still battles and long days ahead; just that the continued moments of trust are not going unnoticed by His watchful eye.

Pray this #associatePastorTuesday for those pastors that are having difficulty in the midst of trials and struggles to maintain a continual sense of trust. Pray they would neither lose hope, nor give up the fight. Pray that God would strengthen their hearts and renew their minds, from the battles that have worn them done. May they continue to serve faithfully and keep the perspective that even maintaining hope is important in getting through that which wages against them. Pray that worry, anxiety and overthinking and analysis would not get the best of them, but that even in the late hours, they would find rest and peace in the midst of the troubling unknown.

For one can never go wrong,
To continual place their trust in God alone.
To Him who never fails, neither sleeps nor slumbers;
Neither is He slack concerning us.
His plan is good and His timing perfect; for His glory.

- PNC

History is important. It also, sadly, can't be rewritten after the fact.

But whatever the topic, even or subject matter, whether on a personal level or a national level, it is necessary to have an accurate analysis. Granted we don't always have all the information or the complete story until months, years and decades later, even; but an accurate account is crucial for a number of reasons.... most importantly, to help us not repeat that which went wrong.

Ironically, I'm writing this after following a thread on social media, about a young couple in their 20's becoming debt-free and yet struggling with feeling as though they are wasting their time to be able to enjoy "life" during their 20's. And tons of comments follow... about how much farther they will be ahead by making the sacrifice now in their youth, rather than living life to the full and literally paying for it one, two and three decades later. Comments are flooding in by people who are 2 and 3 decades later, and kicking themselves for not doing what this young couple is accomplishing.

We can talk about a barrage of social, cultural and national issues for which this truth applies, the need for accuracy regarding history but we'll leave that to the experts who do that sort of thing daily. On a personal level, regardless of stage and position you find yourself in life today, it's easy to get caught up and burned out thinking about how the prospect of tomorrow would be different had you done yesterday differently. And in the middle of that is now doing what is necessary today, rather than what is desirable today.

Better to sacrifice early, by choice, than later, by force. 

Everybody deals with regret differently, especially in their own lives, where's it's easy to tell and repeat our side of the story, rather than the whole story or convince ourselves that situations and our stupidity wasn't as bad as everyone else saw it to be (speaking for a friend *wink, wink). I would think to deal with such matters while engaged in some incredible challenging circumstances in the lives of others through the avenue of ministry would be incredibly difficult.

On this #associatePastorTuesday, pray for those pastors struggling with regrets and decisions of long ago. Even though they can't be changed, pray that they would have an accurate analysis what happened, so that lessons can be learned that haven't already and wisdom can be applied moving forward. Pray that God would redeem the time that was lost, by bad decisions, missed opportunities, misguided dreams and unproductive activities. May God use their experience to help others in their journey, as they are reminded once again of the powerful truth of God's sovereign hand...

He works all things together
For those who love Him
And are called according to His purpose.

- PNC

Mom's advice from thirty-something years ago hasn't changed. You can't please everyone. Certainly, not as often as we hope. Unless, there is a level of understanding and commit to each other that exceeds most other relationships.

Even though, life is full of disappointments.

We let people done, all day, every day... in circumstances that are well beyond our control as often as they are within our control. And even when you find a balance, of doing your best, moving your fast, applying wisdom and experience and proper context... you can get "everything" right, as it depends on you and still manage to get something "wrong" in the eyes of the one on the other side of the table.

I fear entitlement has overstepped it's bounds in relationships of all kinds.

Spouses expect more than can be given, even when the other spouse feels they are already given their "all".
Bosses expect or demand more than is reasonable; and for many of us, more than what they are willing to compensate their employees to include in their responsibilities.
Kids expect the world, often more than we can give them, as much as we would love to do and give more.
Business clients somehow manage to combine the effort and emotion of all the previous three multiplied a couple of times over.

The struggle is real... and once again, church and ministry, not immune.

The real frustration however, lies in the disappointment that we feel internally. All the external stuff we can dismiss, sometimes with relative ease. Other times, it does feel as though as competitor greater, and stronger than we stands over us with one foot upon our back.

At some point and time we've all been there. And even in writing this, I'm dreading the thought of associate pastors who are living in this state of existence. We understand when it happens in the workplace and with clients; it's scary when it happens from the person behind the pulpit or from the people in the pew... with expectations that we simply can 't gain victory over, in any way, shape or form.

On this #associatePastorTuesday, pray for pastors whose life is this frustrating reality. Pray that God would give them wisdom, in handling difficult people with challenging expectations; in whatever role those people play and however the expectations manifest themselves. May their be a grace about their lives as though go about their work and ministry. Pray for strength to endure, especially for the days when set-backs seem to dis-count and discredit whatever positive gains they may have made. Pray for an inner peace to be restored; even that which has been lost and stolen long ago. May the joy of the Lord return and be their strength, for every arena, role and relationship of their lives.

That whatever work is done,
Be done as unto the Lord
For His glory alone.

- PNC